{"id":93147,"date":"2023-06-20T17:18:50","date_gmt":"2023-06-20T13:18:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/?p=93147"},"modified":"2023-06-20T17:21:38","modified_gmt":"2023-06-20T13:21:38","slug":"gozl%c9%99r-q%c9%99lbin-aynasidir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/?p=93147","title":{"rendered":"G\u00f6zl\u0259r q\u0259lbin aynas\u0131d\u0131r"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>G\u00f6zl\u0259rin dediyini b\u0259z\u0259n s\u00f6zl\u0259r bel\u0259 ifad\u0259 etmir. B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 el\u0259 buna g\u00f6r\u0259 &#171;g\u00f6zl\u0259r q\u0259lbin aynas\u0131d\u0131r&#187; deyirl\u0259r. Fizioqnomikaya (sif\u0259tin oxunmas\u0131 s\u0259n\u0259ti) g\u00f6r\u0259, h\u0259r adam\u0131n g\u00f6zl\u0259rinin r\u0259ngi t\u0259krarolunmaz v\u0259 f\u0259qlidir. M\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r bildirir ki, g\u00f6z\u00fcn r\u0259ngi xasiyy\u0259t\u0259 t\u0259sir edir. Bunu n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 alaraq dig\u0259r insanlarla dil tapmaq asan olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Psixoloq&nbsp;<strong>Arzu Qurbanova<\/strong>n\u0131n s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, informasiyan\u0131n b\u00f6y\u00fck hiss\u0259si g\u00f6zl\u0259r vasit\u0259si il\u0259 q\u0259bul olunur. G\u00f6z r\u0259ngl\u0259rin\u0259 dair bilgil\u0259r insan\u0131n dig\u0259rl\u0259rini, el\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc anlamas\u0131na k\u00f6m\u0259k edir. \u0130nsan xasiyy\u0259tinin hans\u0131sa c\u0259h\u0259tini gizl\u0259d\u0259 bil\u0259r. Lakin bax\u0131\u015flar\u0131 onu h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 b\u00fcruz\u0259 ver\u0259c\u0259k. G\u00f6zl\u0259rin r\u0259ngi d\u0259 insan\u0131 anlamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6n\u0259mlidir. Lakin bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn g\u00f6z r\u0259ngl\u0259rini d\u0259qiql\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Bu is\u0259 he\u00e7 d\u0259 asan deyil. Bel\u0259 ki, b\u0259zil\u0259rinin g\u00f6zl\u0259rinin r\u0259ngi qar\u0131\u015f\u0131q v\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fk\u0259n olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Psixoloq qeyd edib ki, g\u00f6z r\u0259ngl\u0259ri parlaq olan insanlar daha f\u0259al, ehtirasl\u0131, g\u00fccl\u00fc v\u0259 enerjili olurlar: &#171;Bel\u0259 insanlar\u0131n q\u0259z\u0259bi d\u0259 g\u00fccl\u00fc olur. A\u00e7\u0131q v\u0259 sol\u011fun r\u0259ngl\u0259r is\u0259 f\u0259rdin romantik v\u0259 k\u00fcs\u0259y\u0259n olmas\u0131na i\u015far\u0259 edir. \u0130sti g\u00f6z r\u0259ngl\u0259rin\u0259 malik olanlar mehriban, soyuq g\u00f6z r\u0259ngl\u0259ri olanlar is\u0259 \u0259ksin\u0259 soyuq adamlard\u0131r&#187;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A.Qurbanova bildirib ki, g\u00f6yg\u00f6z adamlar \u00e7ox emosional v\u0259 h\u0259ssas olurlar. Onlar cazib\u0259dar, romantik v\u0259 \u0259dal\u0259tli insanlard\u0131r, sevgid\u0259 ehtirasl\u0131d\u0131rlar. Lakin onlar\u0131n xasiyy\u0259tl\u0259rinin m\u0259nfi c\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259ri d\u0259 var: &#171;Bel\u0259 adamlar\u0131n kimd\u0259ns\u0259 xo\u015flar\u0131 g\u0259lm\u0259dikd\u0259 ona qar\u015f\u0131 uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t m\u00fcbariz\u0259 apar\u0131rlar. Bu insanlar\u0131 emosiyalar\u0131 idar\u0259 edir. Bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n d\u0259 t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259li add\u0131mlar bel\u0259 at\u0131rlar. Onlar \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 ziyan olduqda bel\u0259 m\u00fcbahis\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 girirl\u0259r. G\u00f6yg\u00f6z adamlar kinli, c\u0259sar\u0259tli v\u0259 q\u0259tiyy\u0259tlidirl\u0259r. Onlarda liderlik x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259ri \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6st\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259, \u0259ks\u0259r hallarda k\u00f6lg\u0259d\u0259 qal\u0131rlar. H\u0259yatda u\u011fur qazanmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bel\u0259 adamlar \u00f6z h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rini idar\u0259 etm\u0259yi bacarmal\u0131d\u0131rlar&#187;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u00fcnd q\u0259hv\u0259yi v\u0259 ya qara g\u00f6zl\u0259rin sahibl\u0259rinin enerjili, f\u0259al v\u0259 ehtirasl\u0131 oldu\u011funu dey\u0259n psixoloqa g\u00f6r\u0259, bel\u0259 adamlar bir yerd\u0259 q\u0259rar tuta bilmirl\u0259r. Dediyin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, onlar daim ir\u0259li getm\u0259k, m\u00fcxt\u0259lif nailiyy\u0259tl\u0259r \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259k ist\u0259yirl\u0259r: &#171;H\u00f6kml\u00fcd\u00fcrl\u0259r v\u0259 liderliyi xo\u015flay\u0131rlar. Bel\u0259 g\u00f6zl\u0259rin sahibl\u0259ri dig\u0259rl\u0259rinin xo\u015funa g\u0259lm\u0259yi bacar\u0131r, cazib\u0259dar olurlar. Diqq\u0259t m\u0259rk\u0259zind\u0259 olma\u011f\u0131 sevirl\u0259r. Onlardan \u00e7oxlar\u0131 hesab edir ki, diqq\u0259t m\u0259rk\u0259zind\u0259 olmaq adi hald\u0131r. Bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n d\u0259 h\u0259r zaman birinci olma\u011fa can at\u0131rlar. Eyni zamanda, ist\u0259yirl\u0259r ki, onlar\u0131 h\u0259v\u0259sl\u0259ndirsinl\u0259r, t\u0259rifl\u0259sinl\u0259r. \u018fks halda, onlara n\u0259y\u0259s\u0259 nail olmaq maraqs\u0131z g\u0259lir. Tez a\u015fiq olurlar. Onlar m\u00fcbahis\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 meylli olsalar da kinli deyill\u0259r, xo\u015flar\u0131na g\u0259l\u0259n insanlara qar\u015f\u0131 xo\u015f m\u00fcnasib\u0259t b\u0259sl\u0259s\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259 sevm\u0259diyi insanlara qar\u015f\u0131 q\u0259ddard\u0131lar&#187;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u00fcsahibim \u0259lav\u0259 edib ki, k\u00fcl r\u0259ngli g\u00f6zl\u0259r\u0259 malik adamlar a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 v\u0259 q\u0259tiyy\u0259tlidirl\u0259r: &#171;Onlar probleml\u0259rd\u0259n qa\u00e7m\u0131rlar. Probleml\u0259ri d\u0259rhal h\u0259ll edirl\u0259r. S\u0259brli, m\u0259suliyy\u0259tli, \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 \u0259min olurlar. Bel\u0259 adamlar m\u00fcbahis\u0259l\u0259ri sevmirl\u0259r. Lakin soyuq m\u00fcnasib\u0259t qurmalar\u0131 il\u0259 f\u0259ql\u0259nirl\u0259r. Quru, emosiyas\u0131z adam olmalar\u0131na baxmayaraq, sadiqliyi il\u0259 se\u00e7ilirl\u0259r&#187;.<br><br>Onun dediyin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, t\u00fcnd k\u00fcl r\u0259ngli g\u00f6zl\u0259rin sahibi is\u0259 \u00e7ox g\u00fccl\u00fc adamlar olur. &#171;Onlar t\u0259rs, q\u0131sqanc, c\u0259sar\u0259tli v\u0259 sadiq olurlar. Bel\u0259 adamlara h\u0259r \u015fey maraql\u0131 g\u0259lir. Onlar \u015f\u0259xsi h\u0259yatda v\u0259 i\u015fg\u00fczar al\u0259md\u0259 d\u0259 u\u011furludurlar&#187;.<br><br>Qurbanova bildirib ki, a\u00e7\u0131q q\u0259hv\u0259yi g\u00f6zl\u0259rin sahibl\u0259ri is\u0259 tamam f\u0259rqlidil\u0259r: &#171;Bel\u0259 adamar \u00e7ox utancaq olurlar. X\u0259yalp\u0259r\u0259stdil\u0259r, qapal\u0131 v\u0259 t\u0259nhal\u0131\u011fa meyllidirl\u0259r. Bel\u0259 adamlara inanmaq olar. Onlar z\u0259hm\u0259tke\u015f olur, probleml\u0259ri \u00f6zl\u0259ri h\u0259ll etm\u0259y\u0259 can at\u0131rlar. Ad\u0259t\u0259n a\u00e7\u0131q q\u0259hv\u0259yi g\u00f6z sahibl\u0259ri qoydu\u011fu m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259r\u0259 \u00e7at\u0131r v\u0259 u\u011fur qazan\u0131rlar. Lakin onlar k\u0259nardan t\u0259zyiql\u0259ri sevmirl\u0259r. Onlar\u0131n b\u0259zil\u0259ri t\u0259nb\u0259l v\u0259 passiv olurlar. \u0130lk bax\u0131\u015fdan yum\u015faq v\u0259 utancaq t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcrat ba\u011f\u0131\u015flayan bel\u0259 adamlar \u00e7ox t\u0259rs ola bil\u0259rl\u0259r. Bel\u0259 insanlar m\u00fcst\u0259qil h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t etdikl\u0259ri halda b\u00f6y\u00fck u\u011furlara nail olurlar. Yaln\u0131z tam s\u0259rb\u0259st olduqda i\u015fl\u0259ri yax\u015f\u0131 ged\u0259c\u0259k&#187;.<br><br>Psixoloqun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, sar\u0131 r\u0259ngd\u0259 olan, p\u0259l\u0259ng g\u00f6zl\u0259rini xat\u0131rladan g\u00f6zl\u0259r\u0259 is\u0259 nadir halda rast g\u0259linir: &#171;Bu, insan\u0131n qeyri-adi olmas\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Onlar\u0131n x\u00fcsusi istedadlar\u0131 olur. Misal \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, bel\u0259 adamlar dig\u0259rl\u0259rinin fikirl\u0259rini oxuya bilir. \u0130st\u0259nil\u0259n i\u015f\u0259 yarad\u0131c\u0131 yana\u015f\u0131rlar. Bel\u0259 insanlarla \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t qurmaq z\u00f6vq verir. Sar\u0131 r\u0259ng isti r\u0259ng oldu\u011fundan bir n\u00f6v bu c\u00fcr insanlar i\u015f\u0131q sa\u00e7\u0131r. Lakin onlar g\u00f6zl\u0259nilm\u0259z h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259r d\u0259 edir v\u0259 m\u0259krlidirl\u0259r. Bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n d\u0259 onlar\u0131 hirsl\u0259ndirm\u0259k olmaz. Bu, onlar\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xaran adam \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn pis n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259n\u0259 bil\u0259r. Onlar hissl\u0259rin\u0259 qap\u0131laraq yax\u0131nlar\u0131na, dostlar\u0131na, sevdikl\u0259ri insanlara g\u00f6r\u0259 son g\u00fccl\u0259rin\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r m\u00fcbariz\u0259 aparma\u011fa haz\u0131rd\u0131lar. Onlar\u0131 qorxutmaq \u00e7\u0259tindir. Sar\u0131 g\u00f6zl\u0259ri olan adamlar he\u00e7 kim\u0259 tabe olmaq ist\u0259mirl\u0259r. \u00d6zl\u0259rini \u00e7\u0259tin idar\u0259 ets\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259 hiyl\u0259g\u0259r v\u0259 uzaqg\u00f6r\u0259n olurlar. Onlar insanlar\u0131n iki\u00fczl\u00fc olmas\u0131n\u0131 yax\u015f\u0131 hiss edirl\u0259r&#187;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ya\u015f\u0131l g\u00f6z adamlar\u0131n \u00e7ox mehriban oldu\u011funu vur\u011fulayan h\u0259ms\u00f6hb\u0259tim onlar\u0131n sevgisinin s\u0259mimi oldu\u011funu deyib: &#171;Sevdikl\u0259rin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 sadiqdirl\u0259r. Bel\u0259 g\u00f6zl\u0259rin sahibl\u0259ri d\u00f6z\u00fcml\u00fc, t\u0259rs, m\u0259qs\u0259dy\u00f6nl\u00fc olur. Onlar\u0131n yax\u015f\u0131 t\u0259\u015fkilat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131q bacar\u0131qlar\u0131 da var. Lakin onlara enerji v\u0259 q\u00fcvv\u0259t \u00e7at\u0131\u015fm\u0131r. Bel\u0259 adamlar liderliy\u0259 can atmasalar da i\u015fg\u00fczar al\u0259md\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t qazanma\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssis olma\u011f\u0131 ist\u0259yirl\u0259r&#187;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dediyin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, ya\u015f\u0131l g\u00f6zl\u0259rin sahibl\u0259ri \u0259dal\u0259tlidirl\u0259r. H\u0259yata real bax\u0131r, d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcy\u00fc problemli v\u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259n d\u00fczg\u00fcn \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yolu tapa bilirl\u0259r. Ciddi v\u0259 s\u0259liq\u0259lidirl\u0259r. Bununla yana\u015f\u0131, sirli v\u0259 maraql\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259 bilirl\u0259r: &#171;Hiyl\u0259g\u0259r, dig\u0259r insanlar\u0131n n\u0259 ist\u0259dikl\u0259rini tez ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u0259ndirl\u0259r. Eyni zamanda, onlar m\u0259krlidirl\u0259r. \u0130nsanlar\u0131 idar\u0259 etm\u0259yi xo\u015flasalar da, m\u00fcbahis\u0259li v\u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259n yan qa\u00e7ma\u011f\u0131 \u00fcst\u00fcn tuturlar. Bel\u0259 adamlar q\u00fcrurlu olur v\u0259 onlar\u0131n q\u00fcruruna toxunanlar\u0131 ba\u011f\u0131\u015flaya bilmirl\u0259r. Onlar sadiqdirl\u0259r. Bel\u0259 adamlar qulaq asma\u011f\u0131 xo\u015flay\u0131r, \u00fcnsiyy\u0259td\u0259 maraql\u0131d\u0131rlar. R\u0259hb\u0259r i\u015fl\u0259rd\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259rini yax\u015f\u0131 hiss edirl\u0259r&#187;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>G\u00f6zl\u0259rin dediyini b\u0259z\u0259n s\u00f6zl\u0259r bel\u0259 ifad\u0259 etmir. B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 el\u0259 buna g\u00f6r\u0259 &#171;g\u00f6zl\u0259r q\u0259lbin aynas\u0131d\u0131r&#187; deyirl\u0259r. Fizioqnomikaya (sif\u0259tin oxunmas\u0131 s\u0259n\u0259ti) g\u00f6r\u0259, h\u0259r adam\u0131n g\u00f6zl\u0259rinin<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-93147","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-arasdirma"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/93147","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=93147"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/93147\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":93148,"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/93147\/revisions\/93148"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=93147"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=93147"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=93147"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}