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Yer \u00fcz\u00fcnd\u0259 el\u0259 bir insan tap\u0131lmaz ki, \u0259trafdak\u0131lara t\u0259sir etm\u0259k, \u00f6z arzu v\u0259 ist\u0259kl\u0259rini h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irm\u0259k v\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131al\u0131nmaz bir hissl\u0259 g\u0259r\u0259kliliyini duymaq mara\u011f\u0131nda olmas\u0131n. El\u0259 is\u0259 insan m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri sah\u0259sind\u0259 d\u00fcnya \u015f\u00f6hr\u0259tli Amerika m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisi Deyl Karneginin fikirl\u0259ri il\u0259 tan\u0131\u015f olaq. Deyl Karnegi il\u0259 tan\u0131\u015fl\u0131qdan \u0259vv\u0259l onun kimliyil\u0259 maraqlanaq. Deyl Karnegi 1888-ci ild\u0259 Amerikan\u0131n Missuri \u015ftat\u0131nda anadan olub. He\u00e7 kimin tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131 Deyli m\u0259\u015fhurla\u015fd\u0131ran v\u0259 ona milyonlar qazand\u0131ran keyfiyy\u0259t s\u0131rf t\u0259sad\u00fcf n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 yaran\u0131b. Bel\u0259 ki, t\u0259hsil haqq\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6d\u0259y\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259n Deyl anas\u0131n\u0131n m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259ti il\u0259 diskussiya d\u0259rn\u0259yin\u0259 daxil olub, nitq m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259tini \u00f6yr\u0259nir. V\u0259 m\u00fcxt\u0259lif m\u00f6vzular \u00fczr\u0259 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015flar ed\u0259r\u0259k pul qazanma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r. Yax\u015f\u0131 natiq kimi tan\u0131nan Deyl t\u0259hsilini ba\u015fa vurduqdan sonra ticar\u0259tl\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r. Bu sah\u0259d\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259ri pis getm\u0259s\u0259 d\u0259 o, natiqlik s\u0259n\u0259tinin ard\u0131nca getm\u0259k q\u0259rar\u0131na g\u0259lir. V\u0259 bu m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259 Nyu- Yorka yollan\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nyu-Yorkda natiqlik s\u0259n\u0259ti \u00fczr\u0259 kurslar aparan Deyl insani m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rl\u0259 maraqlanma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r. 1936-c\u0131 ild\u0259 i\u015f\u0131q \u00fcz\u00fc g\u00f6r\u0259n \u00abDostu nec\u0259 qazanmal\u0131 v\u0259 insanlara nec\u0259 t\u0259sir etm\u0259li?\u00bb adl\u0131 kitab\u0131 Deylin h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 b\u00fcsb\u00fct\u00fcn d\u0259yi\u015fir. Bir il \u0259rzind\u0259 milyon n\u00fcsx\u0259d\u0259n \u00e7ox sat\u0131lan bu kitab tezlikl\u0259 14 dil\u0259 t\u0259rc\u00fcm\u0259 olunur. Deyl kitab\u0131nda insanlarla r\u0259ftar\u0131n \u0259sas metodlar\u0131ndan, eyni zamanda onlar\u0131 incitm\u0259d\u0259n, t\u0259hqir v\u0259 t\u0259hdid etm\u0259d\u0259n \u00f6z bax\u0131\u015flar\u0131na meyll\u0259ndirm\u0259 \u00fcsullar\u0131ndan v\u0259 s. m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n s\u00f6hb\u0259t a\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Deyl Karnegi bu kitabla kifay\u0259tl\u0259nm\u0259di, insani m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r m\u00f6vzusunda daha bir ne\u00e7\u0259 kitab\u0131 oxucular\u0131n ixtiyar\u0131na verdi. Onun metodikas\u0131n\u0131n \u0259sas prinsipi bel\u0259 idi: \u00abT\u0259nqid m\u0259nas\u0131zd\u0131r, t\u0259nqid insan\u0131 yaln\u0131z m\u00fcdafi\u0259y\u0259 ke\u00e7m\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur edir. Bu zaman is\u0259 t\u0259nqid olunan insan bir qayda olaraq, h\u0259r v\u0259chl\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 haqq qazand\u0131rma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, t\u0259nqid t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259lidir. Adam\u0131n q\u00fcruruna, heysiyy\u0259tin\u0259 toxunur v\u0259 buna m\u0259ruz qalan insan b\u00fct\u00fcn \u00f6mr\u00fc boyu bunu yadda saxlay\u0131r\u00bb.
Missuri \u015ftat\u0131nda sad\u0259 h\u0259yat t\u0259rzi s\u00fcr\u0259n Deyl bu prinsip \u0259sas\u0131nda q\u0259l\u0259m\u0259 ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u0259s\u0259rl\u0259ri il\u0259 d\u00fcnya \u015f\u00f6hr\u0259ti qazand\u0131. V\u0259 yar\u0131m \u0259srd\u0259n art\u0131qd\u0131r ki, Deyl Karneginini \u0259s\u0259rl\u0259ri geni\u015f oxucu audotoriyas\u0131n\u0131 itirm\u0259yib. Deyl Karnegi 67 ya\u015f\u0131nda d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fib.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

On iki qayda
<\/strong><\/em>Bu g\u00fcn Deyl Karneginin \u0259trafdak\u0131larla d\u00fczg\u00fcn m\u00fcnasib\u0259t qurmaq bar\u0259d\u0259 q\u0259na\u0259tl\u0259ri il\u0259 tan\u0131\u015f olaca\u011f\u0131q. T\u0259bii ki, d\u00fczg\u00fcn m\u00fcnasib\u0259t qurma\u011f\u0131n \u00fcsullar\u0131 bir s\u00f6hb\u0259t\u0259 s\u0131\u011fm\u0131r. \u018fn az\u0131 ona g\u00f6r\u0259 ki, bu sah\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 sizin maraq dair\u0259niz kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r geni\u015fdir. V\u0259 bu maraqlar\u0131 t\u0259min etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7oxlu sayda qaydalar var. Bu g\u00fcn biz Deyl Karneginin t\u0259birinc\u0259 des\u0259k, \u00abAdamlar\u0131 n\u00f6qteyi-n\u0259z\u0259riniz\u0259 meyll\u0259ndirm\u0259y\u0259 imkan ver\u0259n on iki qayda\u00bb il\u0259 tan\u0131\u015f olaca\u011f\u0131q.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I qayda: M\u00fcbahis\u0259d\u0259 \u00fcst\u00fcn g\u0259lm\u0259k olmaz
<\/strong><\/em>N\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 al\u0131n ki, bir qayda olaraq, \u00f6z fikrind\u0259 israrl\u0131 olan adamlar m\u00fcbahis\u0259 edir. Siz \u00f6z fikrinizd\u0259 n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r israrl\u0131s\u0131n\u0131zsa, qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f d\u0259 \u00f6z fikirl\u0259rin\u0259 bir o q\u0259d\u0259r inamla yana\u015f\u0131r. \u018fmin ola bil\u0259rsiniz ki, qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f he\u00e7 vaxt \u00f6z fikrind\u0259n d\u00f6nm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k. Onun sizin fikirl\u0259rinizl\u0259 raz\u0131la\u015fac\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 is\u0259 he\u00e7 a\u011fl\u0131n\u0131za bel\u0259 g\u0259tirm\u0259yin. Bunu n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 alan Deyl Karnegi \u00abM\u00fcbahis\u0259d\u0259 \u00fcst\u00fcn g\u0259lm\u0259k olmaz\u00bb m\u00fcdd\u0259as\u0131n\u0131 \u0259sas tutaraq, m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6r\u00fcr ki, m\u00fcbahis\u0259d\u0259 q\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 qazanma\u011f\u0131n yegan\u0259 yolu ondan yay\u0131nmaqd\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

II qayda: D\u00fc\u015fm\u0259n qazanma\u011f\u0131n asan yolu v\u0259 bundan nec\u0259 \u00e7\u0259kinm\u0259li?
<\/strong><\/em>D\u00fc\u015fm\u0259n qazanmaq, el\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259 dostlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 itirm\u0259k ist\u0259mirsinizs\u0259, m\u00fcsahibinizin fikirl\u0259rin\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259tl\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131n. Qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f haqs\u0131z olduqda bel\u0259, bunu ona q\u0259ti v\u0259 k\u0259skin \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 dem\u0259yin. Z\u0259rur\u0259t yoxdursa, he\u00e7 vaxt haqs\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ona xat\u0131rlatmay\u0131n. Yox \u0259g\u0259r onun haqs\u0131z oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yl\u0259m\u0259k z\u0259ruridirs\u0259, bunu yum\u015faq formada v\u0259 yava\u015f-yava\u015f edin. T\u0259bii ki, ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 s\u0259mimi, mehriban ovqat yarad\u0131n. Onun bir \u00e7ox m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 haql\u0131 oldu\u011funu, yaln\u0131z hans\u0131sa m\u0259qamda yan\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u0259yin. Bu, Deyl Karneginin t\u0259klif etdiyi variantd\u0131r. Yeri g\u0259lmi\u015fk\u0259n, qeyd ed\u0259k ki, bu bar\u0259d\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn m\u00fcdrik adamlar h\u0259mr\u0259ydir. O c\u00fcml\u0259d\u0259n, m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s kitablarda s\u00f6yl\u0259nil\u0259n fikirl\u0259r d\u0259 \u00fcst-\u00fcst\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, \u00abQur\u2019ani-K\u0259rim\u00bb d\u0259 b\u0259nd\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 ba\u011f\u0131\u015flamaq yolunu tutma\u011f\u0131 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6r\u00fcr. V\u0259 yaxud \u0130sa pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259r(\u0259) «\u00d6z r\u0259qibinl\u0259 tezc\u0259 bar\u0131\u015f»- deyib.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

III qayda: Haqs\u0131zs\u0131n\u0131zsa, bunu etiraf edin
<\/strong><\/em>Bu, qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fi yum\u015faltma\u011f\u0131n, h\u0259tta onu \u00f6z t\u0259r\u0259finiz\u0259 \u00e7\u0259km\u0259yin \u0259n asan yoludur. Deyl bu bar\u0259d\u0259 \u00f6z fikirl\u0259rini sual \u015f\u0259klind\u0259 ifad\u0259 edib: «\u018fg\u0259r bizi ist\u0259r-ist\u0259m\u0259z toqqu\u015fma g\u00f6zl\u0259diyini biliriks\u0259, t\u0259\u015f\u0259bb\u00fcs\u00fc \u00f6z \u0259limiz\u0259 almaqla ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131 qabaqlamaq daha yax\u015f\u0131 olmazd\u0131m\u0131?
\u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc t\u0259nqid etm\u0259k ba\u015fqalar\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n ittiham olunmaqdan daha asan deyilmi?». Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 Deyl m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6r\u00fcb ki, qar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdak\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f-m\u00fcqabilinizi qabaqlayaraq, siz\u0259 s\u00f6yl\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yi b\u00fct\u00fcn t\u0259nqidi fikirl\u0259ri \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz haqda s\u00f6yl\u0259yin. O d\u0259qiq\u0259 m\u00fcsahibinizin sizin haqda fikirl\u0259ri d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259c\u0259k. \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, \u00f6z s\u0259hvl\u0259rini etiraf etm\u0259k insan\u0131 ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 ucald\u0131r. \u0130nan\u0131n ki, s\u0259hvinizi etiraf etm\u0259kl\u0259 ist\u0259diyinizd\u0259n daha \u00e7ox \u015fey\u0259 nail ola bil\u0259rsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

IV qayda: \u0130nsan z\u0259kas\u0131na do\u011fru birba\u015fa yol
<\/strong><\/em>D\u00f6rd\u00fcnc\u00fc qayda \u00e7ox sad\u0259dir. Xeyirxahl\u0131q, dostluq v\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131ndak\u0131n\u0131 anlamaqla adamlar\u0131n fikrini d\u0259yi\u015fdirm\u0259y\u0259 daha tez nail olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 al\u0131b, b\u0259ri ba\u015fdan mehribanl\u0131q m\u00f6vqeyind\u0259 durun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V qayda: Sokrat\u0131n sirri
<\/strong><\/em>Deyl Karneginin fikrinc\u0259, Sokrat\u0131n sirri bir k\u0259lm\u0259d\u0259n ibar\u0259tdir. N\u0259dir o k\u0259lm\u0259?  \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, \u00abb\u0259li\u00bb. S\u00f6hb\u0259t \u0259snas\u0131nda tez-tez \u00abb\u0259li\u00bb dem\u0259yi unutmay\u0131n. Onu da bilin ki, bu s\u00f6z\u00fc t\u0259k sizin i\u015fl\u0259tm\u0259yiniz kifay\u0259t deyil. M\u00fcsahibinizl\u0259 s\u00f6hb\u0259ti el\u0259 apar\u0131n ki, o \u00f6z\u00fc tez-tez \u00abb\u0259li\u00bb dem\u0259k m\u0259cburiyy\u0259ti qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda qals\u0131n. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, onun maraqlar\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f ed\u0259r\u0259k, \u00abS\u0259n ist\u0259mirs\u0259n ki…?\u00bb sual\u0131 qoyun. Bu zaman o, sizinl\u0259 raz\u0131la\u015faraq \u00abb\u0259li\u00bb dey\u0259c\u0259k. Bu, o dem\u0259kdir ki, siz \u00f6z ist\u0259yiniz\u0259 nail olmusunuz, h\u0259r \u015fey sizin \u00fcr\u0259yinizc\u0259 olacaq.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

VI qayda: \u015eikay\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259n xilas olma\u011f\u0131n yolu
<\/strong><\/em>Bu qayda, az qala, aforizml\u0259\u015f\u0259n \u00abqulaq asmaq laz\u0131m g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 birinci ol, dan\u0131\u015fmaq laz\u0131m g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 sonuncu\u00bb m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tini xat\u0131rlad\u0131r. S\u00f6hb\u0259t zaman\u0131 qar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdak\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcr\u0259yini bo\u015faltmas\u0131na imkan yarad\u0131n. \u0130mkan verin ki, daha \u00e7ox o dan\u0131\u015fs\u0131n. Bu, n\u0259inki \u015fikay\u0259tl\u0259ri dinl\u0259y\u0259rk\u0259n, \u00fcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, ist\u0259nil\u0259n s\u00f6hb\u0259t zaman\u0131 \u0259n m\u00fcnasib m\u00f6vqedir. El\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdak\u0131n\u0131n hirsini soyudar. \u00dcst\u0259lik o, sizi \u0259n maraql\u0131 h\u0259ms\u00f6hb\u0259t kimi xat\u0131rlayar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

VII qayda: \u018fm\u0259kda\u015fl\u0131\u011fa nec\u0259 nail olmal\u0131?
<\/strong><\/em>Deyl Karnegiy\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 \u0259m\u0259kda\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u0259n asan yolu budur: qoy m\u00fcsahibiniz el\u0259 hesab etsin ki, hans\u0131sa m\u0259\u015fhur fikir onun \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 m\u0259xsusdur. T\u0259bii ki, s\u00f6hb\u0259t \u00f6n\u0259mli fikirl\u0259rd\u0259n gedir. Deyl Karnegi bu qayda bar\u0259d\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fark\u0259n, Amerika prezidenti Teodor Ruzveltin prinsipini xat\u0131rlad\u0131rm\u0131\u015f. Teodor Ruzvelt kimi is\u0259 v\u0259zif\u0259y\u0259 t\u0259yin ed\u0259rk\u0259n, ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 komandas\u0131n\u0131 masa arxas\u0131na d\u0259v\u0259t edib, bu v\u0259zif\u0259y\u0259 layiqli bir namiz\u0259d tapmaqda ona k\u00f6m\u0259klik g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259l\u0259rini rica edirmi\u015f. V\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tutdu\u011fu namiz\u0259din ad\u0131 \u00e7\u0259kil\u0259n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r T.Ruzvelt \u00abDaha kimi m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6r\u0259rdiniz?\u00bb dey\u0259 soru\u015farm\u0131\u015f. Bel\u0259likl\u0259, komandas\u0131 T.Ruzvelti son d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259 demokratik v\u0259 \u0259v\u0259zolunmaz bir r\u0259hb\u0259r kimi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndir\u0259rdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

VIII qayda: Sizin \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00f6c\u00fcz\u0259 yaradacaq d\u00fcstur
<\/strong><\/em>H\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 hadis\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 m\u00fcsahibinizin n\u0259z\u0259rl\u0259ri il\u0259 baxma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Onun maraq v\u0259 ist\u0259kl\u0259rini \u0259sas g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259r\u0259k, ist\u0259nil\u0259n m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259ni g\u00f6t\u00fcr-qoy edin. Deyl Karnegi bu qaydan\u0131 t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 ed\u0259rk\u0259n, onu ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 d\u0259c\u0259l u\u015faqlarla s\u0131naqdan \u00e7\u0131xarma\u011f\u0131 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6r\u00fcb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

IX qayda: O, n\u0259 ist\u0259yir?
<\/strong><\/em>Bu qaydaya riay\u0259t ed\u0259rk\u0259n ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdak\u0131 adam\u0131n n\u0259 ist\u0259diyini \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ayd\u0131nla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131n. V\u0259 onun fikir v\u0259 ist\u0259kl\u0259rin\u0259 s\u0259mimi can\u0131yananl\u0131qla yana\u015f\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

X qayda: Ham\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcr\u0259yinc\u0259 olan \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131\u015f
<\/strong><\/em>N\u0259dir bu \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131\u015f? \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, xeyirxah motivli \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131\u015flar ham\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcr\u0259yin\u0259 yat\u0131r. H\u0259rd\u0259n ham\u0131n\u0131n maraqlar\u0131na cavab ver\u0259n, istirah\u0259t el\u0259m\u0259k, \u015f\u0259nl\u0259nm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u015f\u0259rait yaradan ideyalarla \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f ets\u0259niz, pis olmaz. Ax\u0131 niy\u0259 d\u0259 yox?  Bu zaman siz \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz d\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l istirah\u0259t ed\u0259 bil\u0259rsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

XI qayda: Kinoda v\u0259 radioda bel\u0259dir. B\u0259s siz niy\u0259 bel\u0259 etmirsiniz?
<\/strong><\/em>Y\u0259qin ki, bu qaydan\u0131 oxuyark\u0259n, g\u00f6r\u0259s\u0259n, kinoda v\u0259 radioda n\u0259 edirl\u0259r dey\u0259 fikirl\u0259\u015firsiniz. Deylin bu qaydas\u0131 el\u0259 m\u0259hz buna xidm\u0259t edir. M\u00fcsahibd\u0259 maraq oyatmaq, \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 halda is\u0259 onu h\u0259y\u0259canland\u0131rmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Bel\u0259 olan t\u0259qdird\u0259 ideyalar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 daha asanl\u0131qla h\u0259yata ke\u00e7ir\u0259 bil\u0259rsiniz. Bu ideyalar\u0131n s\u0259m\u0259r\u0259siz olmayaca\u011f\u0131na is\u0259 \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259 etm\u0259yin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

XII qayda: Dig\u0259r he\u00e7 n\u0259 t\u0259sir etmirs\u0259, bunu yoxlay\u0131n
<\/strong><\/em>Deyl Karneginin adamlar\u0131n n\u00f6qteyi-n\u0259z\u0259riniz\u0259 meyll\u0259ndirm\u0259y\u0259 imkan ver\u0259n 11 qaydas\u0131 siz\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k etm\u0259dis\u0259, onda onlar\u0131n ham\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259n x\u0259tt \u00e7\u0259kin v\u0259 12-ci qaydaya riay\u0259t edin. Qar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdak\u0131na meydan oxuyun v\u0259 onun z\u0259if damar\u0131n\u0131 tutun. Y\u0259ni onun z\u0259if c\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259rini m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259nl\u0259\u015fdir\u0259r\u0259k, m\u00fcbahis\u0259 zaman\u0131 bu c\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259n yararlanma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Bu zaman n\u0259y\u0259 qadir oldu\u011funuzu g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259kd\u0259n \u00e7\u0259kinm\u0259yin. \u00dcst\u00fcnl\u00fcy\u0259 nail olmaq, qalib g\u0259lm\u0259k ist\u0259yirsinizs\u0259, 12-ci qayda sizin sonuncu \u015fans\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Yer \u00fcz\u00fcnd\u0259 el\u0259 bir insan tap\u0131lmaz ki, \u0259trafdak\u0131lara t\u0259sir etm\u0259k, \u00f6z arzu v\u0259 ist\u0259kl\u0259rini h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irm\u0259k v\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131al\u0131nmaz bir hissl\u0259 g\u0259r\u0259kliliyini duymaq mara\u011f\u0131nda olmas\u0131n.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-95786","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-siyast"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/95786","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=95786"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/95786\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":95788,"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/95786\/revisions\/95788"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=95786"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=95786"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=95786"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}