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Mill\u0259t olaraq utanma duy\u011fusu genl\u0259rimiz\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r i\u015fl\u0259mi\u015fdir. Bu, mill\u0259timiz\u0259 xas n\u0259cibliyin \u0259lam\u0259tidir. Bununla bel\u0259, h\u0259r duy\u011funun yerind\u0259 v\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259b edildiyi \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 istifad\u0259si z\u0259ruridir. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, m\u0259rh\u0259m\u0259t duy\u011fusu. Canavara qar\u015f\u0131 m\u0259rh\u0259m\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259k, onun i\u015ftahan\u0131 a\u00e7ar, sonra da di\u015finin kiray\u0259sini ist\u0259d\u0259r. Az\u011f\u0131na m\u0259rh\u0259m\u0259t onu daha da az\u011f\u0131nla\u015fd\u0131rar v\u0259 ba\u015fqas\u0131na t\u0259cav\u00fcz\u0259 t\u0259\u015fviq ed\u0259r. \u018fli qanl\u0131, \u00fcz\u00fc qanl\u0131, k\u00f6nl\u00fc qanl\u0131ya m\u0259rh\u0259m\u0259t b\u00fct\u00fcn m\u0259zlumlara g\u00f6st\u0259ril\u0259n qorxunc m\u0259rh\u0259m\u0259tsizliy\u0259 \u00e7evril\u0259r. Halbuki m\u0259rh\u0259m\u0259t varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n ilk mayas\u0131d\u0131r. Onsuz h\u0259r \u015fey bulamac v\u0259 xaosdur. H\u0259r \u015fey m\u0259rh\u0259m\u0259tl\u0259 var olar v\u0259 m\u0259rh\u0259m\u0259tl\u0259 varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u0259r. Utanma duy\u011fusu da bel\u0259dir. Yerind\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259dil\u0259rk\u0259n ab\u0131-h\u0259yat b\u0259x\u015f ed\u0259n bir iksir kimi, sui-istifad\u0259 edil\u0259rk\u0259n is\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rimizi \u00f6l\u00fcm\u0259 g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259n z\u0259h\u0259r kimidir.
D\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 iclaslara v\u0259 konfranslara qat\u0131lar\u0131q. A\u011fl\u0131m\u0131za bir sual v\u0259 ya h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir fikri ir\u0259li s\u00fcrm\u0259k g\u0259l\u0259r. Utancaql\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan yerimizd\u0259n bel\u0259 q\u0131m\u0131ldanmar\u0131q. C\u0259sar\u0259t etm\u0259k o q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7\u0259tin g\u0259l\u0259r ki, biz\u0259. \u00c7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yolunu ert\u0259l\u0259m\u0259kd\u0259, sonraya saxlamaqda g\u00f6r\u0259rik. Bir d\u0259 baxaraq ki, iclas\u0131n qurtard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 elan edirl\u0259r. N\u0259d\u0259ns\u0259, bu bir ne\u00e7\u0259 saatl\u0131q zaman dilimind\u0259 ill\u0259rdir \u0259n \u00e7ox t\u0259krarlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t olan dan\u0131\u015fma\u011f\u0131 b\u00f6y\u00fck f\u0259lak\u0259t bil\u0259rik. Utancaql\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ayaq alt\u0131na almaq \u00f6l\u00fcm kimi g\u0259l\u0259r.
\"utancaq«Milyon\u00e7u» \u015fouda i\u015ftirak ed\u0259n v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n h\u0259y\u0259can qorxular\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259n sezm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. Ancaq yar\u0131\u015fman\u0131n rus versiyan\u0131 «Kim milyon\u00e7u olmaq ist\u0259r?» proqram\u0131nda i\u015ftirak ed\u0259n ruslar\u0131n c\u0259sar\u0259tin\u0259 heyran qalmamaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil. Bizim v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015f\u0131m\u0131z dosta z\u0259ng \u015fans\u0131n\u0131 istifad\u0259 ed\u0259rk\u0259n, ola bildikc\u0259 h\u0259y\u0259canlan\u0131r, t\u0259l\u0259sir, s\u0259s tonu d\u0259yi\u015fir v\u0259 h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259 bir ba\u015fqal\u0131q m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 olunur. Lakin ruslar sakit h\u0259y\u0259canlanmadan, ayd\u0131n \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 suallar\u0131n\u0131 soru\u015furlar. H\u0259l\u0259 diqq\u0259timi \u00e7\u0259k\u0259n bir i\u015ftirak\u00e7\u0131 sual\u0131n\u0131n cavab\u0131n\u0131 ald\u0131qdan sonra dostundan hal-x\u0259tir soru\u015fur, v\u0259ziyy\u0259tini \u00f6yr\u0259nirdi. C\u0259sar\u0259tin\u0259 heyran qalm\u0131\u015fd\u0131m.
B\u0259s, biz nec\u0259? Bird\u0259n m\u00fcraci\u0259t edib, bizd\u0259n sual soru\u015farlar dey\u0259 qat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z toplant\u0131lar\u0131n \u00e7oxunda yer\u0259 baxar, toplant\u0131 aparan\u0131n n\u0259z\u0259rl\u0259rin\u0259 tu\u015f g\u0259lm\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 can atar\u0131q. Sanki faydal\u0131ym\u0131\u015f kimi, utancaql\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan vaz ke\u00e7m\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015far\u0131q. H\u0259r \u015feyi t\u0259rk ed\u0259rik amma biz\u0259 h\u0259r \u015fey t\u0259rk etdir\u0259n utanma\u011f\u0131, \u0259sla…
N\u0259dir, ilikl\u0259rimiz\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r i\u015fl\u0259yib, m\u0259nliyimizi h\u0259bs ed\u0259n utanma\u011f\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri? Niy\u0259 \u00e7ox vaxt i\u00e7imizd\u0259 onunla apard\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z m\u00fcbariz\u0259nin m\u0259\u011flub t\u0259r\u0259fi biz oluruq? Utanma\u011fa sar\u0131lmaq m\u00fcv\u0259ff\u0259q olmaqdan daha xo\u015fdurmu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Utanma\u011f\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri.<\/strong>M\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r utanman\u0131n m\u00fcxt\u0259lif s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n qaynaqland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 qeyd edirl\u0259r. M\u00fcv\u0259ff\u0259qiyy\u0259t\u0259 ged\u0259n yolun \u0259ng\u0259ll\u0259rind\u0259n biri kimi is\u0259 utanman\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri aras\u0131nda \u0259sas \u00fc\u00e7 faktor g\u00f6st\u0259rilir:
— Bacara bilm\u0259m\u0259 qorxusu;
— Al\u00e7ald\u0131lma d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259si;
— S\u0259hv etm\u0259 narahat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bacara <\/strong>bilm\u0259m\u0259<\/strong> qorxusu.<\/strong>
Susuzluqdan l\u0259hl\u0259y\u0259n bir itin su i\u00e7m\u0259y\u0259 yax\u0131nla\u015fark\u0259n d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 geri qa\u00e7mas\u0131 g\u00f6lm\u0259\u00e7\u0259nin k\u0259nar\u0131nda oturan m\u00fct\u0259f\u0259kkirin diqq\u0259tini \u00e7\u0259kir. S\u0259n dem\u0259, onu su i\u00e7m\u0259 fikrind\u0259n da\u015f\u0131nd\u0131ran, \u00f6z \u0259ksini suda g\u00f6r\u00fcb qorxmas\u0131d\u0131r. D\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 geri \u00e7\u0259kil\u0259n it, ax\u0131rda susuzlu\u011fa tab g\u0259tir\u0259 bilm\u0259yib \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc suya at\u0131r v\u0259 \u00f6z \u0259ksini g\u00f6rm\u0259diyin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 sudan doya-doya i\u00e7ir.
M\u00fct\u0259f\u0259kkir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259y\u0259 dal\u0131r. Dem\u0259k ki, bir insan\u0131n ist\u0259kl\u0259ri il\u0259 aras\u0131ndak\u0131 \u0259ng\u0259l \u00e7ox vaxt \u00f6z i\u00e7ind\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fctd\u00fcy\u00fc qorxular\u0131d\u0131r. \u018fg\u0259r qorxular\u0131n\u0131 a\u015fma\u011fa m\u00fcv\u0259ff\u0259q olsa, ist\u0259kl\u0259rin\u0259 nail ola bil\u0259r.
M\u0259hz el\u0259, i\u00e7imizd\u0259ki qorxu bizi yenilikl\u0259rd\u0259n boyun qa\u00e7\u0131rma\u011fa q\u0131m\u0131ldanmadan durma\u011fa vadar ed\u0259r. Bacara bilm\u0259m\u0259 narahat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u0259nliyimiz\u0259 hopma\u011fa ba\u015flayar. V\u00fccudumuz art\u0131q qorxunun \u015foku alt\u0131ndad\u0131r. El\u0259, bu \u00e7\u0259tin anda utanma duy\u011fusu imdad\u0131m\u0131za yeti\u015fir, lakin onun t\u0259siri q\u0131sa m\u00fcdd\u0259tlik a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131 yat\u0131zd\u0131ran, lakin he\u00e7 bir m\u00fcalic\u0259vi \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259t k\u0259sb etm\u0259y\u0259n morfin\u0259 b\u0259nz\u0259y\u0259r. Sad\u0259c\u0259 bir anl\u0131q qurtulu\u015f kimi g\u00f6r\u00fcns\u0259 d\u0259, qabiliyy\u0259tl\u0259rimizi koralma\u011fa m\u0259hkum ed\u0259r.
Utanmaqdan qurtulu\u015fun \u00e7ar\u0259si h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t\u0259 ke\u00e7m\u0259kdir. M\u00fcv\u0259ff\u0259qiyy\u0259t m\u00f6vzusunda ilk seminar verm\u0259zd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l g\u00fcnl\u0259rl\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcm. «G\u00f6r\u0259s\u0259n, al\u0131narm\u0131?» sual\u0131 beynimi \u0259n \u00e7ox m\u0259\u015f\u011ful ed\u0259n m\u00f6vzu idi. Sonunda q\u0259rar\u0131m\u0131 vermi\u015fdim. N\u0259 olursa, olsun, bu seminar\u0131 verm\u0259liydim. Seminar\u0131n ba\u015flamas\u0131na \u00e7ox az qalm\u0131\u015fd\u0131, on v\u0259 ya on be\u015f d\u0259qiq\u0259. \u0130\u00e7imd\u0259ki s\u0259s al\u0131nmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u0259yir, h\u0259l\u0259 vaz ke\u00e7m\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn vaxt\u0131n m\u00f6vcudlu\u011fundan x\u0259b\u0259r verirdi. Bir az sonra art\u0131q d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259y\u0259 d\u0259 zaman qalmam\u0131\u015fd\u0131. Seminar\u0131n ba\u015flan\u011f\u0131c\u0131nda h\u0259y\u0259can duysam da, sonralar ke\u00e7ib getdiyinin f\u0259rqin\u0259 vard\u0131m. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnd\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fmaq art\u0131q m\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259yl\u0259nc\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7evrilmi\u015fdi.
Utanmaqdan qurtulmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn an\u0131nda q\u0259rar verin. H\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t edin, qalx\u0131n, soru\u015fun, dan\u0131\u015f\u0131n, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rinizi realla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131n, utancaql\u0131\u011f\u0131 ayaq alt\u0131na alark\u0259n m\u00fcv\u0259ff\u0259q oldu\u011funuzun \u015fahidi olacaqs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Al\u00e7ald\u0131lma d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259si.<\/strong>
\u0130nsanlar\u0131n \u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259l bacard\u0131qlar\u0131 \u015fey m\u0259lumat sahibi olduqlar\u0131 v\u0259 ya olmad\u0131qlar\u0131 m\u00f6vzularda dayanmadan t\u0259nqid etm\u0259l\u0259ridir. T\u00fcrkiy\u0259d\u0259 reklam \u00e7\u0259kili\u015fl\u0259ri il\u0259 m\u0259\u015fhur \u018fli Taran\u0131n BP Super V \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn haz\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 reklam\u0131n sloqan\u0131 bunu daha g\u00f6z\u0259l \u0259ks etdirir. «A\u011fz\u0131 olan dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r». T\u0259nqidl\u0259r, t\u0259hqirl\u0259r, al\u00e7ald\u0131lmalar…
— D\u00fcnyan\u0131 qurtarmaq s\u0259n\u0259mi qal\u0131b?
— \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc n\u0259 z\u0259nn edirs\u0259n?
— Bu i\u015f s\u0259nlik deyil?
— S\u0259n hara, bu i\u015f hara, bo\u015funa vaxt s\u0259rf etm\u0259?
Bu s\u00f6zl\u0259r \u00e7oxumuza tan\u0131\u015fd\u0131r. G\u00f6r\u0259s\u0259n, al\u00e7ald\u0131lamayan, ki\u00e7ik g\u00f6r\u00fclm\u0259y\u0259n insan varm\u0131?
M\u0259\u015fhur \u0130ngilis yaz\u0131\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 Gilbert Kiyt \u00c7estertona m\u00fc\u0259llimi bir zamanlar «\u018fg\u0259r onun k\u0259ll\u0259si a\u00e7\u0131lsa beyin yerin\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck bir ya\u011f par\u00e7as\u0131 \u00e7\u0131xar» demi\u015fdi.
Tomas Edisonun orta m\u0259kt\u0259b m\u00fc\u0259llimi ona «beyinsiz» bir u\u015faq oldu\u011funu v\u0259 he\u00e7 bir zaman m\u00fcv\u0259ff\u0259q olmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u0259mi\u015fdi. \u0130lk kimy\u0259vi t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259si partlay\u0131\u015fla n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259ndiyin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 i\u015fd\u0259n qovulmu\u015fdu.
\u0130ngilis senat\u0131 Benjamin Disraelinin m\u0259clisd\u0259 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f\u0131na q\u0131\u015fq\u0131r\u0131qlarla izin verilm\u0259mi\u015fdi. O da «Yax\u015f\u0131, s\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc k\u0259sir\u0259m, amma m\u0259ni dinl\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yiniz zaman olacaqd\u0131r», — demi\u015f v\u0259 h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n d\u0259 ill\u0259r sonra eyni k\u00fcrs\u00fcd\u0259n ba\u015f nazir olaraq \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f etmi\u015fdi.
M\u0259\u015fhur Pol\u015fa piano\u00e7usu \u0130qnasi Paderevskiy\u0259 piano \u00e7alma\u011fa ba\u015flamas\u0131n\u0131n ilk ill\u0259rind\u0259 musiqi m\u00fc\u0259llimi «\u018fll\u0259rin pianonun dill\u0259rin\u0259 hakim ola bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yin q\u0259d\u0259r ki\u00e7ikdir», — demi\u015fdi
«Ki\u00e7ik qad\u0131n» roman\u0131n\u0131n yaz\u0131\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 Luiza Mey-Alkotta ail\u0259si xidm\u0259t\u00e7i v\u0259 ya day\u0259 olmas\u0131n\u0131 t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 etmi\u015fdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Mill\u0259t olaraq utanma duy\u011fusu genl\u0259rimiz\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r i\u015fl\u0259mi\u015fdir. Bu, mill\u0259timiz\u0259 xas n\u0259cibliyin \u0259lam\u0259tidir. Bununla bel\u0259, h\u0259r duy\u011funun yerind\u0259 v\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259b edildiyi \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 istifad\u0259si z\u0259ruridir. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, m\u0259rh\u0259m\u0259t<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":96909,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-96908","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-gundm"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/96908","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=96908"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/96908\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":96910,"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/96908\/revisions\/96910"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/96909"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=96908"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=96908"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=96908"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}