{"id":98773,"date":"2024-03-10T16:16:15","date_gmt":"2024-03-10T12:16:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/?p=98773"},"modified":"2024-03-10T16:18:09","modified_gmt":"2024-03-10T12:18:09","slug":"17-ci-yer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/?p=98773","title":{"rendered":"\u201c17 -ci yer\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>H\u0259yat v\u0259 insan. \u0130nsan v\u0259 psixologiya. Psixologiya \u201cc\u0259dv\u0259li\u00bbnd\u0259 insanlar 3 qrupa ayr\u0131l\u0131r: pessimist, optimist, realist. Pessimist adamlarda nikbinlikd\u0259n \u0259s\u0259r-\u0259lam\u0259t olmur. Onlar, ad\u0259t\u0259n, h\u0259r hans\u0131 i\u015fin h\u0259llin\u0259 inanm\u0131r, el\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r ki, h\u0259min m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin ba\u015fa g\u0259lm\u0259si m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil \u2014 bu bar\u0259d\u0259 he\u00e7 \u201cs\u00f6hb\u0259t ged\u0259 bilm\u0259z\u201d. Bel\u0259 anlarda onlar uzun-uzad\u0131 fikir-x\u0259yal edirl\u0259r. X\u0259yallar is\u0259, \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259, v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xmaqda insana \u0259l vermir, \u0259ksin\u0259, qar\u015f\u0131da duran problemi daha da \u0259l\u00e7atmaz edir. B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar haqda real h\u0259yatda n\u00fcmun\u0259l\u0259r \u00e7oxdur, h\u0259r birimiz says\u0131z faktlarla rastla\u015fm\u0131\u015f\u0131q, lakin ayd\u0131n olsun dey\u0259 ham\u0131m\u0131z \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ortaq n\u00fcmun\u0259l\u0259ri xat\u0131rlatmaq ist\u0259rdim.<a><\/a><br>Az\u0259rbaycan \u015fifahi xalq \u0259d\u0259biyyat\u0131 n\u00fcmun\u0259si olan \u201cM\u0259likm\u0259mm\u0259d\u201d na\u011f\u0131l\u0131nda 3 qarda\u015f yaralanm\u0131\u015f divin arxas\u0131nca gedir. Divin d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcy\u00fc quyuya enm\u0259k m\u0259qam\u0131d\u0131r. B\u00f6y\u00fck v\u0259 ortanc\u0131l qarda\u015f bu c\u0259nc\u0259l i\u015f qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda pessimist fikirl\u0259r\u0259 qap\u0131l\u0131rlar. Bu duy\u011fular getdikc\u0259 onlarda qorxu hissl\u0259rin\u0259 \u00e7evrilir. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r ki, yox, bu quyuya enm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil v\u0259 \u0259g\u0259r ora d\u00fc\u015fs\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259, he\u00e7 n\u0259 ed\u0259 bilm\u0259zl\u0259r. T\u0259bi\u0259t\u0259n pessimist qarda\u015flar quyuya d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 raz\u0131l\u0131q vers\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259, \u201cvay, yand\u0131m, \u00e7\u0259kin! \u2014 dey\u0259 q\u0131\u015fq\u0131r\u0131r v\u0259 he\u00e7 biri bu i\u015fin \u00f6hd\u0259sind\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259 bilmir. G\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fcy\u00fc kimi, burada pessimist faktoru qar\u015f\u0131da duran m\u0259qs\u0259d\u0259 \u00e7atma\u011fa mane\u00e7ilik t\u00f6r\u0259dir, n\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 he\u00e7 bir \u015fey al\u0131nm\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Optimist insanlar<\/strong>&nbsp;is\u0259 \u0259n \u00e7\u0259tin v\u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 bel\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259rini itirmir, h\u0259r \u015feyin yax\u015f\u0131 olaca\u011f\u0131na inan\u0131r, bel\u0259likl\u0259, b\u00fct\u00fcn m\u00fcmk\u00fcns\u00fczl\u00fckl\u0259rin \u00f6hd\u0259sind\u0259n g\u0259lirl\u0259r. Bu tip insanlara da, el\u0259 h\u0259min na\u011f\u0131ldak\u0131 M\u0259likm\u0259mm\u0259di misal g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259k olar. Ki\u00e7ik qarda\u015f M\u0259likm\u0259mm\u0259d o biri qarda\u015flar\u0131ndan f\u0259rqli olaraq, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 inaml\u0131, h\u0259yata qar\u015f\u0131 optimistdir. H\u0259yati olaylara normal baxd\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan he\u00e7 bir \u00e7\u0259tinlik, qar\u015f\u0131da duran h\u0259r hans\u0131 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 onu qorxutmur, ruhdan d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fcr. Yuxulamama\u011f\u0131n \u00e7ar\u0259sini taparaq ( barma\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yaralay\u0131b, duz t\u00f6k\u00fcr), divi yaxalay\u0131r, onu \u00f6l\u00fcmc\u00fcl yaralay\u0131r, c\u0259sar\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rib quyuya enir, divi c\u0259h\u0259nn\u0259m\u0259 vasil ed\u0259r\u0259k, m\u0259qs\u0259din\u0259 \u00e7at\u0131r. \u00dcmumilikd\u0259 is\u0259, b\u00fct\u00fcn na\u011f\u0131l boyu \u015f\u0259r \u00fcns\u00fcrl\u0259r\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 m\u00fcbariz\u0259 apararaq, ideal q\u0259hr\u0259mana \u00e7evrilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Realist adamlar.<\/strong>\u00a0Bunlar xarakterl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, h\u0259m pessimist, h\u0259m d\u0259 optimist insanlardan ciddi \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 f\u0259rql\u0259nirl\u0259r. Realistl\u0259r h\u0259r hans\u0131 \u00e7\u0259tinlik qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda t\u0259slim olmur, neynim, nec\u0259 el\u0259yim\u201d demirl\u0259r. H\u0259tta \u0259n a\u011f\u0131r, h\u0259lli b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmayan m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 tam q\u0259tiyy\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rir, sonda qalib g\u0259lirl\u0259r. Problem yaranan anlarda, ad\u0259t\u0259n, \u00e7\u0259tinliyin \u00f6z\u00fc haqda deyil, onun h\u0259lli yollar\u0131 bar\u0259d\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r. Bu adamlar\u0131n ba\u015fl\u0131ca v\u0259 \u00fcst\u00fcn c\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259n biri d\u0259 soyuqqanl\u0131l\u0131qd\u0131r. \u0130ngilis yaz\u0131\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 Daniel Defonun \u201cRobinzon Kruzo\u201d \u0259s\u0259rind\u0259 maraql\u0131 bir m\u0259qam var: Robinzon Kruzo f\u0131rt\u0131na zaman\u0131 kims\u0259siz bir adaya d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. T\u0259bi\u0259tin bu \u00f6l\u00fc par\u00e7as\u0131nda diri qalmaq, ya\u015famaq olduqca \u00e7\u0259tindir; burada n\u0259 insan var, n\u0259 qida. Bel\u0259 bir \u015f\u0259rait pessimistl\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn h\u0259yat\u0131n sonu olard\u0131. Lakin Robinzon realistdir. O, m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n \u00e7\u0259tinlik, \u00e7\u0131x\u0131lmazl\u0131q anlar\u0131 ya\u015fasa da, \u0259sl ya\u015fam hissind\u0259n m\u0259hrum deyil. Anlay\u0131r ki, ya\u015famaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fcbariz\u0259 aparmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. \u018fs\u0259rin kino variant\u0131nda is\u0259 biz onun daha rasional obraz\u0131 il\u0259 rastla\u015f\u0131r\u0131q. O, kims\u0259siz adada kino \u201ch\u0259ngam\u0259si\u201d yarad\u0131r. \u00c7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r ki, h\u0259r \u015feyi real, qaydal\u0131 h\u0259yatda oldu\u011fu kimi etsin. Salona stullar d\u00fcz\u00fcr. S\u0259hn\u0259 yarad\u0131r. \u018fsl kinoteatrlarda oldu\u011fu kimi, 17-ci yer\u0259 bilet al\u0131b \u0259yl\u0259\u015fir. H\u0259l\u0259 bu azm\u0131\u015f kimi, \u201cpultu\u201d i\u015f\u0259 sal\u0131b, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259m\u0259xsus jestl\u0259rl\u0259 kanallar\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fir. Bu tama\u015faya tama\u015fa etm\u0259k bizim\u00e7\u00fcn d\u0259 maraql\u0131d\u0131r. Ba\u015fqa adam olsayd\u0131, b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 he\u00e7 n\u0259 qurub-yaratmaz, g\u00f6zl\u0259y\u0259rdi ki, \u0259c\u0259l n\u0259 vaxt g\u0259lib onun can\u0131n\u0131 alacaq&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>G\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fcy\u00fc kimi, bu \u00fc\u00e7 tip insan\u0131n h\u0259r biri \u00f6z psixologiyas\u0131n\u0131n m\u0259hsuludur. Pessimist adamlar\u0131n v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc, optimistl\u0259rinki d\u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc, realistl\u0259rinki is\u0259 qurucudur. \u0130br\u0259tamiz deyilmi? Daha burada n\u0259 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t? M\u0259nc\u0259, Robinzon Kruzonun se\u00e7diyi ya\u015fam \u201cpriyom\u201dunun \u00f6z\u00fc bir ali m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t, ayd\u0131n g\u00f6rk, t\u0259bii-t\u0259bli t\u0259bli\u011fatd\u0131r. Y\u0259ni he\u00e7 bir \u00e7\u0259tinlikd\u0259n qorxmaq laz\u0131m deyil, ist\u0259kli oxucu!<br>Sad\u0259c\u0259, \u00e7\u0259tinlik zaman\u0131 \u0259sib-titr\u0259m\u0259kd\u0259ns\u0259, onun h\u0259llin\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaq g\u0259r\u0259kdir. Burada inam ba\u015fl\u0131ca \u015f\u0259rtdir. \u0130nsanda g\u00fccl\u00fc inam olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu, h\u0259r k\u0259sd\u0259 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olan hald\u0131r. T\u0259ki s\u0259n \u00e7al\u0131\u015f \u2014 m\u00fctl\u0259q al\u0131nacaq. Q\u0131sas\u0131 bir i\u015f\u0259 giri\u015f\u0259nd\u0259 \u00e7ox d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259d\u0259n Robinzon Kruzonun ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 yer\u0259 bilet almaq laz\u0131md\u0131r!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> Arzu Qaya<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>H\u0259yat v\u0259 insan. \u0130nsan v\u0259 psixologiya. Psixologiya \u201cc\u0259dv\u0259li\u00bbnd\u0259 insanlar 3 qrupa ayr\u0131l\u0131r: pessimist, optimist, realist. Pessimist adamlarda nikbinlikd\u0259n \u0259s\u0259r-\u0259lam\u0259t olmur. Onlar, ad\u0259t\u0259n, h\u0259r hans\u0131<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":98774,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-98773","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-gundm"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98773","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=98773"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98773\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":98776,"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98773\/revisions\/98776"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/98774"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=98773"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=98773"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fedai.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=98773"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}